Thursday, December 22, 2005


Wonder Drug

Some more good news before entering into the holiest of unions/matramony, perhaps God's reward for those who keep marriage sacred...

1. Marriage doesn't make you crazy -- it keeps you sane.Forget the popular image of the married couple driving each other nuts. "Studies show that getting married improves mental health and decreases depression," says Linda Waite, Ph.D., a sociologist at the University of Chicago and coauthor of The Case for Marriage. In fact, one study found that people who've never walked down the aisle are more likely to be admitted to a psychiatric facility. "Many women gain a deep satisfaction from the intimacy found in marriage," says Scott Haltzman, M.D., clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Brown University in Providence. "That sense of belonging bolsters their sense of self-worth and purpose," enhancing their mental stability.

2. Marriage keeps you healthy, too. Saying "I do" isn't just good for your mind. Married people --even those in less-than-perfect unions -- are physically healthier than those people who aren't married. They have stronger immune systems, better resistance to viruses such as colds and flus, fewer long-term illnesses and disabilities, fewer hospitalizations, better survival rates for the illnesses they do get and longer life spans -- by up to eight years! Interestingly, though, when it comes to preventing heart disease and strokes, studies have found that being hitched helps only if your relationship is happy. "Your heart knows whether your marriage is good or not," notes Haltzman.

3. It's better to be hitched than rich.What makes people happiest? Being wealthy helps, but it's a solid marriage that seems to rank highest on the smile scale. According to a Dartmouth study, having a good marriage is equal to the satisfaction gained from earning an extra $100,000 a year. So you really can be rich in love.

Monday, December 05, 2005

What are we going to do with that which has been given us? Time doesn't heal wounds, but Jesus does. Prudent. Hope.

When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee? Matthew 25:38-39